Author(s): Crystal Hanza
Mentor(s): Dannelle Larsen-Rife
Institution UTech
The prevalence of consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships in the United States is creating a cultural shift from monogamy to promiscuity. In North America, 5% of the population are in consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships, 21.9% have been in a CNM relationship, and 12% believe a CNM relationship is their ideal. However, people may not be aware of the benefits of a secure romantic attachment (SRA) as SRAs are often mistaken for unhealthy relationships. Some believe the effort required to have a SRA is too risky and limiting (Fullgrabe, 2023; Soft White Underbelly, 2023). Young adults are more likely to believe SRA’s are extremely rare. Many young adults feel independence instead of monogamy is the more logical choice (Hazan,1987). Nonetheless, one out of four women are sexually and/or physically assaulted by an intimate partner (WHO, 2021). People striving for a committed relationship who are abused may associate committed relationships with harm. Distinctions between unstable relationships and secure romantic attachments (SRA) should be made. Unstable relationships include problems with emotional intimacy, lack of mutual consideration, and disloyalty. Love, commitment, stability, appropriate communication, and respect are hallmarks of SRA’s (Simpson, 1990). It is important to distinguish the differences of unhealthy attachments and SRA’s because SRA’s provide multiple health benefits. This narrative review examines 12 journal articles on how SRA’s improve mental and physical health (Carter, 2023 & Jolink, 2023). Further research should include LGBTQ couples who are in SRAs because laws discriminating against people in the LGBTQ community are increasing. The current social climate does not foster safe environments for people who are LGBTQ to openly form a SRA. Discrimination is financially costly to communities. By demonstrating the benefits of SRA’s among the LGBTQ community, lawmakers may be more likely to promote laws for safer environments in which everyone striving for a SRA can thrive. It is important to bring more awareness of the benefits of a SRA as creating a culture where secure romantic attachments are not only ideal but are also obtainable. This culture of thought will lead to healthier communities.