Authors: Brandie Statham, Rebekah Hakala
Mentors: Todd Spencer
Insitution: Utah Valley University
The link between attachment style and sexual intercourse frequency is critical in determining an individual's sexual satisfaction in a romantic relationship. Secure, anxious, avoidant, and disordered attachment types all have a substantial impact on how people approach sexual intimacy (Mark, Vowels, & Murray, 2018). Individuals who are securely attached tend to have better levels of sexual satisfaction because they can openly communicate their desires and needs, creating a positive and supportive sexual environment. Anxiously connected people, on the other hand, may experience swings in sexual satisfaction as a result of their reliance on sexual connection for reassurance. Individuals who prioritize physical proximity over emotional intimacy may have difficulty forming deep emotional relationships, affecting their overall sexual satisfaction. Disorganized attachment patterns can result in complex and occasionally contradictory experiences (Mark, Vowels, & Murray, 2018).. They may want both closeness and distance, which can create confusion. This attachment style's unpredictability can have an impact on both frequency and satisfaction.
The purpose of the present study is to examine the relationship among attachment styles and sexual satisfaction, and sexual frequency. Our sample consists of 411 married individuals. Participants completed The Relationship Questionnaire (RQ; Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991), Sexual Frequency, and Sexual Satisfaction Index (CSI-4; Funk & Rogge, 2000). Results of the one way Anova were significant F (3,407) = 8.21, p=<.001. There was a significant difference in levels of sexual satisfaction among attachment styles. Secure attachment (M=32.95, SD = 8.23), fearful attachment (M=29.40, SD = 9.80), preoccupied (M=29.54, SD = 9.82), and dismissing (M = 30.77, SD = 9.97). Results of the Bonferroni Post-hoc analysis indicated a significantly higher levels of couple satisfaction than fearful and dismissing attachment styles (p.<.001). There was no significant difference in the amount of frequency of sex and attachment style. Results provide empirical support that secure attachment styles tend to be beneficial for sexual satisfaction despite having no statistical difference in sexual frequency.